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Yoinked from torinosu and roisnoir

My journal is called _____ because _____.
My subtitle is _____ because _____.
My friends page is called _____ because _____.
My username is ____ because _____.
My default userpic is _____ because_____.


My journal is called "I Build Worlds With Words Alone" because it's a line from a Heather Alexander song about writers. A number of years ago at this point, eslin had mentioned to me that the song could also apply to GMs.

My subtitle is _____ because _____. I don't currently have a subtitle, so I guess this one doesn't apply.

My friends page is called "M's Friends" because I didn't want to use my full name on this LJ (since I post on a lot of comms with it), and kind of liked using my first initial. It also sort of ties into my "being in charge" as a GM, just like "M" of James Bond fame. And no, I don't think I look like Judi Dench. At least, I hope not....

My username is thegamemistress because I like to run RPGs, and being the feminist user of non-sexist terms that I am, I prefer to use "Gamemistress" as a less sexist alternative to "Gamemaster." The term came from a button I bought at a convention, that reads, "Anything done by a Gamemaster is better done by a Gamemistress."

My default userpic is a photomanip of Sarah Felton (from Knights of the Dinner Table) and Gilly the Perky Goth (from Dork Tower) sitting together at a gaming table, with the saying, "RPGs aren't just for boys," because I'm a female gamer (and old enough to remember the days when female gamers were rarer than the proverbial hens' teeth), and I like both Sarah and Gilly, as well as the comic books they appear in.

(The icon was originally going to have Kayleigh, another character from DT, but I like Sarah so much better and thought she'd be more recognizable, so I photomanipulated her into the picture over Kayleigh.)

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waiwode
Nov. 20th, 2004 04:25 pm (UTC)
ahem. Not to get all controversial or anything, but gamemistress is just as sexist as gamemaster, isn't it? It's still attributing a gender to a gender-non-relevant position, n'est-ce pas?

Clearly it doesn't join the male-dominated world of pronouns.

Too bad that game-runner is such a mouthful.

Doug. Game-runner.
efbq
Nov. 20th, 2004 04:47 pm (UTC)
We could always just use referee or judge... Not that they're terribly accurate, but 'master' and 'mistress' don't actually describe the GM function too well either.
thegamemistress
Nov. 20th, 2004 05:11 pm (UTC)
Of late, I lean toward "Moderator." It seems to describe the function of being a GM quite well, at least for me.

And I guess I was in my more radical feminist phase when I adopted the term, "gamemistress." :-)
efbq
Nov. 20th, 2004 05:34 pm (UTC)
Not that I'm one to talk...
I don't think it's particularly 'radical' to reverse arbitrarily gender specific language and see what pops up...

Actually, the best test of whether language (or a given situation) is sexist is to reverse the stated genders and see if it's nonsensical. In this case, both terms are valid - male or female GM, good descriptor, no value judgement involved.
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efbq
Nov. 20th, 2004 06:46 pm (UTC)
Final authority, certainly, but total control?

Had a good discussion with the GM who ran for me last night about his one shot. I admitted that it was pretty clear he expected us to do X, but that I thought Y worked pretty well. He brought out the truism that players NEVER do what you plan, and that a good GM can work around it.

If you want TOTAL control write a book, and hope that none of your characters come to life. Don't try to GM.
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efbq
Nov. 20th, 2004 11:55 pm (UTC)
I'm not assuming anything. I'm asserting that having final authority is not the same thing as having total control.

Gaming is a group process, and, unfortunately, there are some GMs who forget that. I've never gamed with you, so I'm in no position to judge whether that applies to you or not.
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